August 4, 2017

What if Your Preps Outlive You?

This post is by Bernie Carr,

Two unrelated stories caught my attention this week, which prompted me to write this article.  One story was about a California couple who found an underground 1960s fallout shelter in their backyard and the other story was about a woman who had a baby and soon found her husband mistakenly sold a box where she had stashed her wedding ring.

These stories have nothing to do with each other, but they both got me thinking about something that is often left out of emergency planning:  having instructions should something happen to you.

As you can see from the story about the bunker, the man planned well, for what many feared in the 60s, that of nuclear war, but fortunately for him, a nuclear disaster never did come to pass in his lifetime.  Yet his emergency preps lived on, now a quaint reminder, even a time capsule of sorts, representing a bygone era.  In the same vein, we prepare for emergencies or disasters, and continue to hope for the best.

The second story about the wedding ring being hidden in an unused box that got sold inadvertently reminded me of the  importance of telling a trusted someone where you hide things.  I’ve seen articles giving tips on where to hide stuff such as cash and other valuables.  But what if you hide your items in these secret places and something happens to you?  You may have hidden them so well that no one will benefit from your foresight – your loved ones may find your stash accidentally, or maybe they will never get found.

I admit, I don’t even feel comfortable with this subject either, but I know it is something I  need to deal with.  At the very least, have a conversation with your partner about where and what you are hiding, so someone else knows where to find things should something happen to you.  If you were incapacitated or unconscious in the hospital, will your loved ones know where to look for emergency cash or even health insurance forms so they can pay the hospital bill?   Here are a few issues to consider:

  • Do you have a last will and testament?  If you have a lot of assets, then best consult an attorney, if not, and your estate is simple, websites such as Legalzoom (no affiliation with us) may help you.
  • If you are parents, who would take care of the kids?
  • To whom would you grant power-of-attorney should you become incapacitated?
  • Hidden caches and such:  would your family know where you hid your valuables such as safe deposit boxes and storage units?  Watching that show Storage Wars and seeing the characters uncover hidden gems for profit just makes me wonder about the hapless owners who lost these items for whatever reason.
  • Not all families are “on-board” with prepping – you’d have to consider who may appreciate and benefit from your efforts the most, instead of just dumping everything in the trash or selling them off for pennies at a garage sale.

No one really likes to think about this, but loss of life is certainly a disaster situation for the family.  It is something that many of us avoid thinking about, yet is necessary to consider as part of a well-rounded plan.

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3 Comments on What if Your Preps Outlive You?

  1. Regarding the ring, I take a much different message from the news; Proper planning prevents problems like this.

    Had the people purchased a decent safe; even a small fire proof cabinet type, the ring could have been stored where it wasn’t likely to get mistakenly disposed of.
    They could have hidden the entire safe. Say in a large carton marked “bedsheets” or something innocuous if they were concerned.

    A list of valuables could also be, probably should be generated, and placed in the same safe. Doesn’t have to be exhaustive but cluing people as to what is stored where and how much it cost would be a good idea.
    If nothing else make it a part of a will; an addendum page can always be updated as things change or are added.

  2. I live in a remote area and when I’m traveling with my kids home being watched by someone else (they are older, but not old enough to stay alone). I make sure my oldest child knows where basics are, how to open the safe, where the ammo is stashed, where the go bags are, where the long term food stores (they are in an outbuilding), etc.

    Recently my oldest went to camp and I’m handing him items to put in his backpack, first aide kit, granola bars, a knife, matches, etc. He says oh mom here I have a pocket I’m just using for survival stuff you are making me take. He’s a good sport, but these everyday conversations I’m hoping will instill a life long attitude of prepardness.

    • That is great that your son has an interest in being prepared; this is is something he will remember into adulthood.

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